Category: relationship

Some of the most poisonous people come disguis…

Some of the most poisonous people come disguised as friends and family.

The past should be left in the past because it…

The past should be left in the past because it can destroy your future. Live your life for what tomorrow has to offer, not for what yesterday has taken away.

She distanced herself to save herself.

She distanced herself to save herself.

Building Trust in Relationships

Trust is at the heart of all strong relationships. It allows us to feel safe and secure with one another. Hence, it’s crucial that we know what the key components are so we can actively develop, and promote, and honour, trust. Some tips to help you here include the following:

1. Be Reliable. Even small things – like canceling an arrangement or failing to follow through on a commitment you have made – will undermine and fracture the relationship. If this happens on a regular basis the whole foundation will crumble and fall.

2. Related to this, always strive to keep the promises you’ve made. Trust requires that people believe you are a person who’s dependable and reliable. If you have to break a promise, then be decent enough to explain face-to-face why you have to let the person down.

3. Tell the truth. It’s easy to resort to telling a white lie to protect another person, or to cover your own back. But if you tell the truth even when it isn’t pleasant, you will become a person who is known for being trustworthy.

4. Volunteer information. When you have the chance to be vague – don’t take it. Instead be open and transparent, and share important details. Volunteering information says you’ve nothing to hide.

5. Don’t share other peoples’ secrets; don’t be someone who’s a gossip allowed – as we only feel we’re safe with a person who’s discreet. Remember: a confidence … is a confidence … is a confidence.

6. Display loyalty, and be there for that person. That shows that you are caring, dependable and “safe”.

To be a Great Person …

1. Treat everyone with compassion and kindness

2. Treat everyone as valuable

3. Be interested in others (and not just yourself)

4. Look for, and comment on, the best in other people

5. Be there for your friends when they’re going through tough times

6. Think of little things that could make another’s day

7. Motivate others to be all that they can be.

Letting go of someone who’s not good for you

1. Write down all the reasons why you think it’s bad for you to keep on being a part of this love relationship.

2. Try to call to mind the pain and hurtful memories, and all the times you’ve wished that your heart was free again.

3. Identify and list all the different ways you’ve changed, and become less of your self with this person’s in your life.

4. Remind yourself of how you’ve tried to try to keep the love alive – and how it hasn’t worked, or left you feeling satisfied.

5. Think about and celebrate the ways you think you’ll change if you can end things now, and can love somebody else.

6. Image being strong enough to make a lasting break, and doing what is best for the “you” you want to be.

7. Think of things you’ll do to fill the void it leaves behind – so you are not pulled back when you’re hit with loneliness.

8. Remember what was good – for not everything was bad. Be thankful for the lessons, and the memories you have.

A huge amount of freedom comes when you take n…

A huge amount of freedom comes when you take nothing personally.

The Personal Quotes – Love Quotes , Life Quotes 2019-05-17 14:36:50

Self respect. If you don’t have it, the world …

Self respect. If you don’t have it, the world will walk all over you.

The Personal Quotes – Love Quotes , Life Quotes 2019-05-15 12:24:52