Category: relationship

For every person you forgive, you heal a wound of your own.

1. Know yourself – what you want, and do not want.

2. Have good boundaries – know what it is healthy, and what crosses that line.

3. Know your value, and require respect.

4. Get out there and meet a wide range of people.

5. Give people a reasonable chance.

6. Don’t put people into a box; be open to being surprised.

7. Be persistent in your search for true love.

A mistake is an accident. Cheating and lying are not mistakes, they are intentional choices.

The opposite of love is not hate, it’s indifference.

If you have to speculate if someone loves you and wants to be with you, chances are they don’t. It’s not that complicated. Don’t waste moments waiting and wondering. Don’t throw away your time dreaming of someone who doesn’t want you. No one is that amazing, and certainly not someone who would pass you up.

You get a strange feeling when you’re about to leave a place. Like you’ll not only miss the people you love but you’ll miss the person you are now at this time and this place, because you’ll never be this way ever again.

A friend who understands your tears is much more valuable than a lot of friends who only know your smile.

You can love them, forgive them, want good things for them… But still move on without them.

I realize, for the first time, how very lonely I’ve been, and how comforting the presence of another human being can be.

Sometimes not telling people anything is a good thing.